I had a coaching session with a client today; this person is very much into the whole comfort zone of his own problems. 
  Huh?! Comfort zone of own 'problems'!!! How is it a comfort zone, you may wonder! 
  Isn't that what we all do when we crib and complain about how and why we are hampered by others and the situations around us? How we have no option but to go through what we do because of x, y or z reasons! 
  So isn't it a very comfortable zone to be in? If it is someone or something else's problem, then how can it be yours? 
  So, it's okay to be in the mess that most of us would be, than take the onus of what and where we are; because then we would have also the responsibility of moving from where the blankie is so comfy. 
  It requires mettle and courage to accept that we reach wherever we do owing to the choices we make, and also it is our choice to remain where we are, or to make a move to get out of it if we don't like it.